I’m fortunate to know a number of remarkably successful people. I’ve described how these people share a set of specific perspectives and beliefs.
They also share a number of habits:
1. They don’t create back-up plans: Back-up
plans can help you sleep easier at night. Back-up plans can also create
an easy out when times get tough. You’ll work a lot harder and a lot
longer if your primary plan simply has to work because there is no other
option. Total commitment–without a safety net–will spur you to work
harder than you ever imagined possible.If somehow
the worst does happen (and the “worst” is never as bad as you think)
trust that you will find a way to rebound. As long as you keep working
hard and keep learning from your mistakes, you always will.
2. They do the work: You can be good with a little effort. You can be really good with a little more effort.But you
can’t be great–at anything–unless you put in an incredible amount of
focused effort. Scratch the surface of any person with rare skills and
you’ll find a person who has put thousands of hours of effort into
developing those skills.There are
no shortcuts. There are no overnight successes. Everyone has heard about
the 10,000 hours principle but no one follows it… except remarkably
successful people. So start doing the work now. Time is wasting.
3. And they work a lot more: Forget the Sheryl Sandberg “I leave every day at 5:30? stories. I’m sure she does. But she’s not you.Every extremely successful entrepreneur I know (personally) works more hours than the average person–a lot more. They have long lists of things they want to get done. So they have to put in lots of time. Better yet, they want to put in lots of time.If you
don’t embrace a workload others would consider crazy then your goal
doesn’t mean that much to you–or it’s not particularly difficult to
achieve. Either way you won’t be remarkably successful.
4. They avoid the crowds: Conventional
wisdom yields conventional results. Joining the crowd–no matter how
trendy the crowd or “hot” the opportunity–is a recipe for mediocrity.Remarkably
successful people habitually do what other people won’t do. They go
where others won’t go because there’s a lot less competition and a much
greater chance for success.
5. They start at the end: Average success is often based on setting average goals.Decide what
you really want: to be the best, the fastest, the cheapest, the
biggest, whatever. Aim for the ultimate. Decide where you want to end
up. That is your goal. Then you can work backwards and lay out every step along the way.Never start
small where goals are concerned. You’ll make better decisions–and find
it much easier to work a lot harder–when your ultimate goal is ultimate
success.
6. And they don’t stop there: Achieving
a goal–no matter how huge–isn’t the finish line for highly successful
people. Achieving one huge goal just creates a launching pad for
achieving another huge goal.Maybe you
want to create a $100 million business; once you do you can leverage
your contacts and influence to create a charitable foundation for a
cause you believe in. Then your business and humanitarian success can
create a platform for speaking, writing, and thought leadership. Then…The process
of becoming remarkably successful in one field will give you the skills
and network to be remarkably successful in many other
fields. Remarkably successful people don’t try to win just one race.
They expect and plan to win a number of subsequent races.
7. They sell: I
once asked a number of business owners and CEOs to name the one skill
they felt contributed the most to their success. Each said the ability
to sell.Keep in
mind selling isn’t manipulating, pressuring, or cajoling. Selling is
explaining the logic and benefits of a decision or position. Selling is
convincing other people to work with you. Selling is overcoming
objections and roadblocks.Selling is
the foundation of business and personal success: knowing how to
negotiate, to deal with “no,” to maintain confidence and self-esteem in
the face of rejection, to communicate effectively with a wide range of
people, to build long-term relationships…When you
truly believe in your idea, or your company, or yourself then you don’t
need to have a huge ego or a huge personality. You don’t need to “sell.”
You just need to communicate.
8. They are never too proud: To
admit they made a mistake. To say they are sorry. To have big dreams.
To admit they owe their success to others. To poke fun at themselves. To
ask for help.
To fail… And to try again.’
Source: entmoney.com
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